Our mission is to take people and communities by the hand as they explore issues around death, dying, funerals and bereavement.
We take a revolutionary-compassionate approach to blowing away the myths around the single thing which unites all humans.
We are committed to kindness.
WHO ARE WE?
WHO ARE WE?
Dead Positive is a group of like-minded humans with a collective vision.
On a mission to join together to revolutionise the world of death, dying, bereavement, mourning, grief and end-of-life rituals.
Dead Positive are obsessed by their desire to reduce the fear and silence around all things end of life. To end the taboos around the end of our breathing years.
Fascinated by the life-affirming power of embracing the inevitable.
Frustrated by the lack of openness when someone dies.
Driven to distraction by the Victorian funeral practices which do little to serve the needs of us modern people who are just out here mooching about living our modern lives.
Dead Positive has been established with an enthusiasm for loving change and in tribute to the people whose deaths have impacted our own lives.
Dead Positive is their legacy.
KIRSTIE ATHERTON
Kirstie self-identifies as a death geek. As well as being obsessed with end-of-life rituals, Kirstie is on a mission to start the conversations so many people are so reluctant to have. Kirstie is fascinated by the things we do to mark the end of our breathing years and why doing these things matters so much. She somehow manages to be funny, friendly and surprisingly unscary for someone who’s constantly wanging-on about death.
Kirstie says: “When it comes to funerals, you do you. The end of our breath needs to be marked in a way that reflects the time which was lived before, whatever that means to you.”
Founder and Director of the Revolution
Kirstie’s Current Funeral Song: Together in Electric Dreams by Phil Oakey and Giorgio Moroder
NATALIE BIRCH
Director of Effectiveness
Nat is a little pocket rocket of kindness. A fantastic listener. Warm and approachable. She’s also crazy hardworking and driven. Nat’s superpower is whipping stuff into shape and getting shit done. The stable core of Dead Positive, making sure we thrive from strength.
Nat says … “My mum would be absolutely made up I’m doing this. People deserve to know that they have choices. This world of funerals needs changing.”
Nat’s Current Funeral Song: Rolling in the Deep by Adele
LAURA BEVAN
Director of Connectedness
Laura is a powerhouse of activism. She sees things that need improving and just Gets To Work. Laura is the perfect balance of scaffold and wings – keeping us grounded whilst helping us stretch to the moon.
Laura says … “I became involved in Dead Positive to support Kirstie’s vision of breaking down stigma surrounding conversations about death and dying. Not only to normalise conversations about death and dying as a natural part of the life cycle but also in normalising these conversations people can feel more empowered when making choices about end of life and funerals.”
Laura’s Current Funeral Song: Laura by Bat For Lashes
HANNAH ETTRICK
Director of Presentation
Hannah is an artist. A designer. A person who can paint the most intricate pictures on the weeniest of canvases. A woman with an eye for impact. A genuine contender for friendliest human on the actual planet. Hannah has your back whilst making sure that your back (and your front) are looking fabulous. If Dead Positive do it and it looks good – H has had her mitts on it.
Hannah says … “Grief is a very complicated and personal experience. Nobody can tell another person how they should or should not feel. It’s an honour to be part Dead Positive, an honour to be able to share with others and empower them with their choices surrounding death. We’re a vulnerable species and our emotions and musings should be embraced.”
Hannah’s Current Funeral Song: Killing in the Name by Rage Against the Machine
KERRY TAYLOR
Director of Insight
Kerry takes the lemons life gives you and throws them at the heads of monsters. She’s been intrigued by death and dying her whole life. In 2023 her whole world changed when she was widowed after 30 years of marriage. Kerry is a carer. A nurturer. A calm and steady presence. Living proof that from the ashes of devastation can come great things.
Kerry says … “Being there for people as they die, holding the hand of someone and easing their fears, caring for their body, they’re the last beautiful things you can do for a person. I’ve always worked in care but when my darling husband died, I felt so strongly about how he would be treated and cared for that I realised that this was what I was meant to do.”
Kerry’s Current Funeral Song: I’ll Stand by You by The Pretenders